Thursday, December 31, 2009

Book Of The Week 1/1/10




by


From the author's website:

Anna is not sick, but she might as well be. By age thirteen, she has undergone countless surgeries, transfusions, and shots so that her older sister, Kate, can somehow fight the leukemia that has plagued her since childhood. The product of preimplantation genetic diagnosis, Anna was conceived as a bone marrow match for Kate - a life and a role that she has never questioned… until now. Like most teenagers, Anna is beginning to question who she truly is. But unlike most teenagers, she has always been defined in terms of her sister - and so Anna makes a decision that for most would be unthinkable… a decision that will tear her family apart and have perhaps fatal consequences for the sister she loves. My Sister's Keeper examines what it means to be a good parent, a good sister, a good person. Is it morally correct to do whatever it takes to save a child's life… even if that means infringing upon the rights of another? Is it worth trying to discover who you really are, if that quest makes you like yourself less?

(I just finished listening to this book a moment ago.  In fact,  when I arrived home from work I took the last CD out of the car and brought it in the house as I could not fathom waiting a three day weekend to hear the ending.  This turned out to be a good choice as it sure has a two hankie ending.   As always click on the title and the author's name above to learn more.  If anyone is having a time where they just need a good cry to clear the air then this book is guaranteed to  open the flood gates!)

Just For Contacts - an update on my family.

Scott sent me this picture of Tucker opening the gift I got him for Christmas.   It was one of those recordable books from Hallmark.   I purchased the one called "All the Ways I Love You"  shown at the bottom of the page HERE.  Soon I hope things work out better so I can visit him.   Of course besides the book,  I put a little something in the savings account I started for him on his first birthday.   On a sadder note from Scott,  Otis,  his dog I posted a picture of a couple months ago - got away and was apparently hit by a car.  He has a nasty break of a leg and I am not what the outcome is going to be.

Nicole and Michael have been moving this week.   It is an eventful time for them.   If you remember,  they did away with the elementary art program at the school system they worked at,  the end of last school year.   This fall,  Michael has been in his new school system working with the computer programing and Nicole had to stay behind for lack of a job at the new place and the complication of a mortgage.  Although they spend every week end together they wanted to be together through the week too.   So when a temporary position became available at the school Michael is at,  she decided to take the risk and go ahead and move, giving up the secure position where she was.  I wish the best for them.

Last,  on a very sad note,  Nicholas and Tabby filed for divorce today.  (Actually yesterday now)   I kept hoping that things would turn out differently but it did not.   I hope for Nick  to find a quietness and strength inside and new dreams and goals to move toward.

BTW,  the cast that is on Tucker's arm is because he tried to crawl out of his crib.  Time for a big boy bed for him!

It is only normal I guess,  but I am up late in the night,  fretting and wondering,  what the new year is going to hold for my adult children.  



Tuesday, December 29, 2009

An Early New Years Celebration

As those who know me realize,  I work an odd schedule.   On New Years Eve while the rest of the world drops the ball,  if I am lucky,  I will be driving home.   More likely though,  I will be sitting behind a pile of charts and a computer trying to finish up so I CAN drive home.   Nevertheless,  Mark and I went out  this evening and celebrated our New Years together early.   We ate dinner HERE.  (And it was so yummy - shhh - not on my diet).   Sooooo,  albeit early,  Happy New Years from me to all of you!

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Happy Holidays To All Of You





Heaven on Earth
We need it now
I'm sick of all of this
Hanging around

Sick of sorrow
I'm sick of the pain
I'm sick of hearing
Again and again
That there's gonna be
Peace on Earth

Where I grew up
There weren't many trees
Where there was we'd tear them down
And use them on our enemies

They say that what you mock
Will surely overtake you
And you become a monster
So the monster will not break you

And it's already gone too far
You said that if you go in hard
You won't get hurt

Jesus can you take the time
To throw a drowning man a line
Peace on Earth

Tell the ones who hear no sound
Whose sons are living in the ground
Peace on Earth

No who's or why's
No one cries like a mother cries
For peace on Earth

She never got to say goodbye
To see the color in his eyes
Now he's in the dirt
Peace on Earth

They're reading names out
Over the radio
All the folks the rest of us
Won't get to know

Sean and Julia
Gareth, Anne, and Breeda
Their lives are bigger than
Any big idea

Jesus can you take the time
To throw a drowning man a line
Peace on Earth

To tell the ones who hear no sound
Whose sons are living in the ground
Peace on Earth

Jesus in the song you wrote
The words are sticking in my throat
Peace on Earth

Hear it every Christmas time
But hope and history won't rhyme
So what's it worth

This peace on Earth
Peace on Earth
Peace on Earth
Peace on Earth

Sunday, December 20, 2009

A History of Health Care Reform - Interactive Feature - NYTimes.com

http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2009/07/19/us/politics/20090717_HEALTH_TIMELINE.html
Totally neat.

Twenty Five Times A Day

A friend told me that a Doctor told her that a healthy person farts and average of 25 times a day.  I told her that after I turned 50 I guess I got healthier.   See below the gift I gave to my over fifty boss from my unit and shift.   Word has it she plays it to every one who will stop and listen.



Monday, December 14, 2009

Book For The Week of 12/15/09



by


From Amazon.com:


Product Description

In a battery of events that will make a hero out of an illiterate private, a young Richard Sharpe poses as the enemy to bring down a ruthless Indian dictator backed by fearsome French troops.
The year is 1799, and Richard Sharpe is just beginning his military career. An inexperienced young private in His Majesty's service, Sharpe becomes part of an expedition to India to push the ruthless Tippoo of Mysore from his throne and drive out his French allies. To penetrate the Tippoo's city and make contact with a Scottish spy being held prisoner there, Sharpe has to pose as a deserter. Success will make him a sergeant, but failure will turn him over to the Tippoo's brutal executioners -- or, worse -- his man-eating tigers. Picking his way through an exotic and alien world. Sharpe realizes that one slip will mean disaster. And when the furious British assault on the city finally begins, Sharpe must take up arms against his true comrades to preserve his false identity, risking death at their hands in order to avoid detection and thus to foil the Tippoo's well-set trap.
(I just finished listening to this on audio on my way home from work tonight and can honestly say that I am sad to have it over.  Although at the beginning I did not think I would like the book.  It started out very slowly with  a great deal of detail in character development but by the third CD I was sucked into the story and enjoyed it very much.  I plan to listen to more in the series in the future.  As always click on the title and the author's name to learn more.)


Friday, December 4, 2009

From My Yoga Newsletter


http://www.yogajournal.com/
BASIC RECIPE

Prep time: 30 minutes
Servings: 3

1 cup basmati rice
1/2 cup mung beans (whole, soaked overnight)
6 cups boiling water 
1/4 teaspoon turmeric
1 pinch asafoetida (a spice also called hing—available at Indian groceries)
1 cup chopped vegetables, such as zucchini, carrots, cauliflower, or anything you choose (optional)
1 teaspoon ground cumin, coriander, or any other spices you choose (optional
1. Combine the rice with the mung beans and wash twice.

2. Place rice and beans into boiling water, adding the turmeric and asafoetida.

3. Cook over medium heat until the water is mostly absorbed.

4. Add one more cup of lukewarm water, vegetables, and optional spices if you're using them. The final dish should be a stew with a very moist and soft consistency.

In America, downing a hearty grain dish would not be called fasting. But in India, kitchari —a soupy porridge made from rice and mung beans, lightly spiced with ginger, cilantro, and other spices—is considered a fasting food and is used to purify digestion and cleanse systemic toxins.
Ayurvedic physicians often prescribe a kitchari diet before, during, and after panchakarma, a rejuvenative treatment that cleanses toxins stored in bodily tissues as it restores systemic balance. Kitchari provides solid nourishment while allowing the body to devote energy to healing. You can safely subsist on kitchari any time in order to build vitality and strength, since it helps balance all three doshas. For restless vata, the warm soup is grounding; for fiery pitta, its spices are calming; and for chilly kapha, it provides healing warmth.



The Dosha Balancing Diet

The Ayurvedic approach to eating allows us to make intelligent food choices, avoid cravings, and satisfy our hunger.
By Miriam Hospodar

Why do we gobble down a chocolate bar when our stomach is pleading for us not to? What makes us reach for a third helping when we are already full? According to Ayurveda, when we are in balance, we automatically desire foods that are good for us. But if our mind, body, or spirit is out of sync, our connection to our body's inner intelligence goes awry. The modern afflictions that affect our eating habits, like excessive consumption and fast-paced living, can be looked at through the lens of the ancient science of Ayurveda.
Ayurvedic texts emphasize ahara, proper diet, as vital for promoting health and happiness. Ayurveda creates health by enlivening the body's inner intelligence to create harmony. Unlike modern nutritional theories, which tend to recommend "one size fits all" guidelines that change with each new wave of research, Ayurvedic physicians maintain there is no one single diet or food that is healthy for all individuals.
Ayurveda identifies six major tastes we need in our diet every day—sweet, sour, salty, pungent, bitter, and astringent. Each of these tastes has specific health-giving effects. By including all six, we will be most completely nourished and satisfied. When we consistently eat only a few of the tastes, it not only causes health problems but also triggers cravings for unhealthy foods. For instance, fast food contains mostly sweet, sour, and salty tastes. If we eat a steady diet of fast food, we can develop a craving for sweets. Adding more pungent, bitter, and astringent tastes can help tame out-of-control desires for candy and doughnuts.
Balancing Act
The six tastes also affect the doshas. Different foods cause specific doshas either to increase or decrease. The doshas increase and decrease on the principle of "like attracts like." If you have a predominance of vata, you will have the tendency to accumulate more vata. Foods that decrease a dosha are said to pacify that dosha, and foods that increase it aggravate it. Sweet, sour, and salty foods pacify vata. Sweet, pungent, and bitter foods decrease pitta. Pungent, bitter, and astringent foods pacify kapha.
Vata types need foods that calm their tendency toward anxiety and overactivity. Heavy, cooked foods served warm are the most soothing. Dairy products, sweeteners, and foods cooked or served with fats and oils pacify vata. Steam veggies and drizzle with a little ghee (clarified butter) or olive oil, or stir-fry them in oil or ghee. Rice and wheat are excellent grains for vata types. Juicy fruits and vegetables, heavy fruits (such as avocados and bananas), risotto, sweet and sour veggies, and warm berry cobbler with whipped cream all help pacify vata. Avoid hot, spicy foods. Vatas can healthfully cook with more salt than pittas and kaphas.
Fiery pitta needs to be cooled down. Serve foods at cool temperatures, but not ice cold which inhibits digestion. Pittas thrive on reduced amounts of fats, oils, and salt. Sweet, completely ripe fruits and all vegetables except garlic, tomatoes, radishes, and chilies are pitta-pacifying. Moderate portions of dairy products are fine, but minimize sour-cultured ones. Coriander and mint have cooling effects. Coconuts, pomegranates, grilled vegetable salad, and rice pudding all reduce pitta.
Sluggish, cool kapha needs to be stimulated and warmed up. Light, dry, warm foods reduce kapha. Use minimal amounts of fats and oils. Sweeten foods with honey, but never cook or bake with it. Grains such as barley, buckwheat, and rye are the best for kapha types, as are light, dry fruits, such as apples and cranberries. Low or nonfat milk is good, but minimize cultured dairy products. Kapha types can eat all spices and herbs but need to be cautious with salt. Pumpkin and sunflower seeds and all beans, with the exception of the oilier soybean, are excellent.
Intelligent Eating
Just as important as what we eat is how our body assimilates food. Food is the substance through which we bring nature's intelligence into our bodies. Ayurvedic texts liken the process of digestion to cooking over a flame. Digestive "fires," collectively called agni, "cook" food so that nutrients can be optimally utilized. When agni is strong, our body fully assimilates nutrients and eliminates what it doesn't need.
Ultimately a fully functioning digestive system uses the food we eat to produce a biochemical called ojas, a fluid substance that nourishes the mind and body, maintains the balance of all bodily systems, and fills one's entire being with radiant bliss. If the digestive fire is weak, the incompletely digested portion of the meal forms a sticky, toxic substance called ama. The opposite of ojas, ama blocks the flow of the body's inner intelligence. It settles in areas of the body that are out of balance, taking on many forms, such as calcium deposits in the joints, plaque in the arteries, and cysts and tumors. A coated tongue, bad breath, dullness of the senses, depression, and unclear thinking can indicate the presence of ama.
To prevent ama from forming, drink plenty of warm or room temperature water. Do not eat late at night. Eat freshly prepared meals, and cook with seasonal, organic fruits and vegetables (avoid genetically modified foods). Strengthen agni by "kindling" it with heating foods and spices, such as ginger and black pepper. Eat a thin slice of fresh ginger sprinkled lightly with lemon juice and salt a half hour before taking a full meal.
Lastly, it's important to eat foods that you like! Ayurveda explains that agni goes to work the second the food hits your tongue. Whether a food "makes your stomach turn" or "makes your mouth water" literally affects how completely your body absorbs its nutrients. Dishes that make your taste buds sing a joyful song kindle agni and enliven your body's inner intelligence.
The ancient Ayurvedic text Sushrita Samhita states, "He whose doshas are in balance, whose appetite is good ... whose body, mind, and senses remain full of bliss, is called a healthy person." By following these simple, time-tested Ayurvedic dietary principles in your daily life, you can enhance your health, increase your happiness, and uplift your spirit.
Miriam Kasin Hospodar, author of Heaven's Banquet: Vegetarian Cooking for Lifelong Health the Ayurveda Way (Plume, 2001), has been a chef for Ayurvedic spas and health centers for more than 30 years.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

From My E Mail Bag Tonight

What is your favorite number?  I am thinking number 3.



Random Thoughts for the Day: 
   
  1.    I think part of a best friend's job should be to immediately clear your computer history if you die. 
   
  2.   Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you're wrong. 
   
  3.   I
totally take back all those times I didn't want to nap when I was younger. 
   
  4.   There is great need for a sarcasm font. 
   
  5.   How the hell are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet? 
   
  6.   Was learning cursive really necessary? 
   
  7.   Map Quest really needs to start their directions on #5.  I'm pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood. 
   
  8.   Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died. 
   
  9.   I can't remember the last time I wasn't at least kind of tired. 
   
10.   Bad decisions make good
stories. 
   
11.   You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment at work when you know that you just aren't going to do anything productive for the rest of the day. 
   
12.   Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blue Ray?   I don't want to have to restart my collection...again. 
   
13.   I'm always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save
any changes to my ten-page research paper that I swear I did not make any changes to. 
   
14.   "Do not machine wash or tumble dry" means I will never wash this -- ever. 
   
15.   I hate when I just miss a call by the last ring (Hello? Hello? Damn it!), but when I immediately call back, it rings nine times and goes to voicemail.  What'd you do after I didn't answer? Drop the phone and run away? 
   
16.  
I hate leaving my house confident and looking good and then not seeing anyone of importance the entire day. What a waste. 
   
17.   I keep some people's phone numbers in my phone just so I know not to answer when they call. 
    
18.   I think the freezer deserves a light as well.. 
   
19.   I disagree with Kay Jewelers. I would bet on any given Friday or Saturday night more kisses begin with Miller Lites than Kay.

The Story Of Cap and Trade




From the people who brought us The Story of Stuff. I have been waiting on this video.