Friday, March 31, 2017

Fearless Female Blogging Prompt For 3/31



This is the final Fearless Female Blogging Prompts that I have been using to commemorate Women's History Month in 2017.   The original post with all the prompts can be found on The Accidental Genealogist's blog post HERE.  And the final prompt is:


March 31 — Pick one female ancestor and write a mini-profile (500 words or less).


My great great grandmother's cousin, on my father's side,  was Eliza Jane Zimmerman.  She was born in 1847 in a log cabin in Stark County Ohio and was the daughter of George Beck and Christina Bair.  At the end of the Civil War,  the family moved to Miami County Indiana and in June of 1878 Eliza Jane married Jacob Zimmerman in Richvalley, Indiana.  She gave birth to four children and two of them out lived her.   Her marriage only lasted eleven years because Jacob died in 1889.   Eliza Jane lived to age 94.  At her 90th birthday she was able to recall seeing President Lincoln's funeral train car passing through Indiana.  She also was visiting family in Canton Ohio when funeral services took place for President William McKinley.  She was a member or the United Brethren Church and the minister that officiated at Eliza Jane's funeral also officiated at my parent's wedding.   The minister was also my mother's grandmother's uncle.  Eliza Jane's father had a sister named Sarah.  Sarah married William Stair and had a daughter named Mahala who married Oscar Rohrer and was my father's grandmother.  





Tuesday, March 28, 2017

Fearless Female Blogging Prompts for March 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30


I am once again behind on the blogging prompts I chose to use as my celebration of Women's History Month this year.  The original posts can be found on The Accidental Genealogist's Blog HERE.  And the prompts are listed above the responses in my post.  


March 24 — Do you share any physical resemblance or personality trait with one of your female ancestors? Who? What is it?

No I have always thought they found me under a cabbage leaf.  

March 25 — Tell how a female ancestor interacted with her children. Was she loving or supportive? A disciplinarian? A bit of both?

My great grandmother who I knew as "Grandma Al" and I have mentioned in several of these posts was very loving and supportive.  I think every one else was pretty strict although I didn't witness too much harsh discipline.  

March 26 — What education did your mother receive? Your grandmothers? Great-grandmothers? Note any advanced degrees or special achievements.

My mother had her BSN which she obtained after I was out on my own.  She obtained her ASN while I was in school.  I don't think any of my grandmothers or great grandmothers went to college.  I am not even sure which ones graduated from high school.  

March 27 — Do you know the immigration story of one or more female ancestors? Do you have any passenger lists, passports, or other documentation? Interesting family stories?

Again the one that comes to mind is Sarah Armstrong.  She immigrated at age twelve as an orphan with her uncle and her brother.   Another one that comes to mind is Anna Maria Catherina Hirtzler who I also mentioned in a prior post.  She was killed by pirates in about 1751 when they boarded the ship she was on.  

March 28 — Do you remember your mother’s best friend? Your grandmother’s? How and where did they meet? How long were they friends? What activities did they share?

My mother had close friends from both high school and nursing school.  My paternal grandmother had a cousin named Genise who she was very close to.  

March 29 — Create a free Fold3 Memorial Page or a Genealogy Trading Card at Big Huge Labs for a female ancestor. Some of you may have created your own card back in September 2009 following Sheri Fenley’s post over at The Educated Genealogist. This time, the card is for your female ancestor. Tell us about who you've selected and why and then post a link to what you've created.

This is what I created and I did so HERE.   This is my great great grandmother on my mother's side.  I picked her because I think she is pretty but she also looks so stern and dresses so conservatively.  



March 30 — Did you receive any advice or words of wisdom from your mother or another female ancestor?

My great grandmother, who I have mentioned several times in this years posts,  and who I referred to as "Grandma Al" was always sharing old sayings.  Most of them were more silly phrases than sage advice.  "I see said the blind man that couldn't speak",  "enough to gag a maggot on a meat wagon", "you never would notice on a galloping horse" and many more.  I think the most reassuring thing she said all the time was "it will all come out in the wash".  A friend of mine and I used to joke that she never did our laundry.   Of course she did mine sometimes but our meaning is clear.  Looking back over my life though I think it pretty much did all come out in the wash. 


Saturday, March 25, 2017

The Grandfather's Birthdate Saturday Night Challenge

This week's Saturday night challenge involves a Grandfather's Birthdate and the original post along with links to the participants posts can be found HERE.  The actual challenge is worded as follows:

1)  What day of the week was your Grandfather born (either one)? Tell us how you found out.

2) What has happened in recorded history on your Grandfather's birth date (day and month)? Tell us how you found out, and list five events.


3)  What famous people have been born on your Grandfather's birth date?  Tell us how you found out, and list five of them.

4)  Put your responses in your own blog post, in a comment on this blog post, or in a status or comment on Facebook.




Fred Edwin Rohrer
my paternal grandfather
9/7/1903 - 11/1/1985



1) September 7, 1903 was a Monday.  I googled the date asking what day of the week it was to get the answer.  The link I found the answer at is HERE.  

2) I found the answers to what happened on the date by googling it HERE.  Five events are:
  1. 9/7/1940 the London Blitz began.  
  2. 9/7/1979 Chrysler Bail Out
  3. 9/7/2008 FHFA takes over Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac
  4. 9/7/2008 Hurricane Gladys pounds East Coast
  5. 9/7/1979 ESPN debuts on cable tv
3) I googled this question also and found the answers Here.   The following were born on 9/7.
  1. Queen Elizabeth in 1533
  2. Buddy Holly 1936
  3. J.P. Morgan Jr 1867
  4. Grandma Moses 1860
  5. Laura Ashley 1925





Wednesday, March 22, 2017

Fearless Female Blogging Prompt For March 23



Today's blogging prompt from the Accidental Genealogist for Women's History Month was a challenge for me.  See the original post of prompts for March HERE.  The prompt for today is:


March 23 — Create a timeline for a female ancestor using your favorite software program or an online timeline generator such as OurTimelines. Post an image of it or link to it.

I could not get the site Our Timelines to work on my MacBookPro with my Safari browser so I fired up the old Mac Mini which I have Chrome on and was able to generate a timeline.  But I didn't know how to generate the html to use it so I took screen shots along with the screen shot of the credits for the timeline.  I used my paternal 3rd great grandmother Sarah Jane Wible Rohrer as the person for the timeline.   Our Time Lines is a cool tool and can be found HERE.  












Tuesday, March 21, 2017

Fearless Female Blogging Prompt for March 20, 21, 22


Continuing with the Fearless Female Blogging Prompts for Woman's History Month,  which can be found in their original post HERE,  I am answering three of the prompts in this post.


March 20 — Is there a female ancestor who is your brick wall? Why? List possible sources for finding more information.


Catherine (Katherine?) Coolbaugh? (Kohlbaugh?) Sheafor

1755? - 1834?

The picture of the above grave is the grave of Peter Sheafor and can be found in Butler County Ohio. He was in the Revolutionary War.   His wife is one of my brick walls.  I have more female than male brick walls as women are so much harder to trace than men.  They didn't generally own property or have many legal rights so if they are found it must generally be in relationship to a significant male in their life.  I have exhausted almost all means to find out more about Catherine.  I still have a couple of the DAR source document files left to order from the website although I have ordered several of them.  There is a church that one of the daughters was buried at that I can't get a hold of any one to check for records.  I am not sure where Catherine is buried.  Perhaps I could check for internment records in both the cemetery Peter is buried and the one the daughter is buried.  I have checked family history of each of their children but perhaps I should get interment records from where each of their children are buried.  Catherine may be buried near one of them.  Peter and Cathrine started in New Jersey and moved to Mercer County Kentucky and then to Butler County Ohio. I have been to Butler County twice and to Mercer County Kentucky once.  I have been in touch with historical societies and researchers in New Jersey.  Sometimes with brick walls it is okay to sit on it and look again at a later date only to find the answer in the information that you had all along.  


March 21 — Describe a tender moment one of your female ancestors shared with you or another family member.


Doris Ellen Shively 
1908-1994
holding my dad


I was able to spend a fair amount of time with my father's mother growing up.  She was always eager to spend time with us.  Sometimes she would talk to me about her life.  My father was raised by my great grandmother as his parents divorced when he was young.  I can remember my "Grandma Dorie" telling of events in her attempt to be a single parent to my father that led her to eventually allow him to live on the farm with her ex-mother-in-law and what a very hard decision it was for her to make.   She was very emotional when she talked about the situation.  



March 22 — If a famous director wanted to make a movie about one of your female ancestors who would it be? What actress would you cast in the role and why?


Samlesbury Estate
Home of the Southward Family

Jane Sherburne Southward
born about 1575


During the Reformation in England the Southward family was split with some staying Catholic and some converting to the Church of England.  Jane Sherburne had the misfortune of marrying the son that converted.  The father of the Southward family was very strong in his Catholic faith and after his son died Jane ended up being put on trial for witchcraft.  She was found not-guilty and all the gory details can be read HERE.  I think the story would make a great movie and for the role of Jane in the movie I would pick Lucy Hale.  I think she is an excellent actress and she looks a little witchy when she is made up kind of goth in the series Pretty Little Liars. 



Sunday, March 19, 2017

Saturday Night Genealogy Challenge - A Critical Life Decision


James Q Rairigh 1850 - 1911


The Saturday Night Challenge post along with links to all the participants can be found HERE and is as follows:

1)  Did you or your ancestor make a critical life decision that really changed their life in terms of place, work, family, relationships, etc.?

Certainly all of my ancestors made critical life decisions that really changed their lives.  Immigration from Europe to the New World was a major change as as subsequent generations moved a little farther west with each generation the major changes continued.  So I decided to choose to write about an ancestor whose choice was a little different than everyone else's.  For a little back ground my Rairigh line immigrated to the New World prior to 1748 when Nicklaus Rohrig bought some land in Montgomery County PA.  He migrated northwest from Germantown where he made stockings to Montgomery County.  His son John migrated south west to Indiana County PA.  John's son George migrated west to Armstrong County PA.   George's son Samuel migrated further west to Darke County Ohio and then on much farther west to Peabody Kansas.  George was the father of John Quinter Rairigh who was born in 1850 in Pennsylvania and moved with his father to Darke County Ohio and later to Kansas.  He was married while in Kansas to Louisa Dickey who was born back in Darke County but had migrated to Kansas with her family.  James Q and Louisa moved about an hour south to Rock Kansas and Louisa died in 1887. 


Louisa Dickey Rairigh 
1854 - 1887


Then for some reason - if I ever knew why I didn't document it and don't now remember - James Quinter Rairigh moved his four children to a farm in Miami County Indiana.  There he met a widow lady named Lydia Myers and they were married.  They had no children together.  Among the four children of James Q that he had with his first wife was a son named William Harve who was my mother's paternal grandfather.  

I find the fact that every one was moving west for generations and then all at once James Q moved east.  He did not go back to Darke County Ohio but instead chose to go to Miami County Indiana.   But if he had not chosen to go there then my mother's family would have continued in Kansas and with my father's family being in Indiana then they would not have met and I would not have been born.  Therefore I think it was critical that James Q made the choice he did to leave Kansas and move to Indiana.  



Fearless Female Blogging Prompt for March 15, 16, 17, 18, 19




The Accidental Genealogist has posted blogging prompts for every day in March to help bloggers have ideas for Women's History Month.  The original post with all the prompts can be found HERE.  I am behind but will use this post to catch up because some of the answers I have are short.

March 15 — Write a six-word memoir tribute to one of your female ancestors.

She loved us all any way

I wrote this tribute to my great grandmother Alice Wilson Rohrer.   My grandfather's mother died a week after he was born and later my great grandfather married who I knew as my great grandmother Alice.  We called her Grandma Al.  She claimed us all.  And so did her family.  I never knew her sister was not my blood aunt till I was an adult.  In fact it was her half sister.  My great grandmother was illegitimate and her mother married a Mr Hiner and had other children so her family was the Hiner family.  So much like my own family were the Hiners that I have included them in my family tree because they are an important part of my family history.  


March 16 — If you could have lunch with any female family member (living or dead) or any famous female who would it be and why? Where would you go? What would you eat?

We answered this question for Saturday Night Genealogy Challenge a few weeks back and my post can be found HERE

March 17 — Social Butterfly? What social organizations or groups did your mother or grandmother belong to? Sewing circle, church group, fraternal benefit society or lodge? Describe her role in the group.

As I child I don't think I was too much into paying attention to what adults were up to but as I try to remember I can remember my mother having bridge group.  And I can remember when I was in high school she went to meetings for the Nursing Association.  Her mother I do not remember doing anything socially but she must have.  My father's mother I remember she took me to one of the those animal associations - maybe the Elks - and we played bingo.  I won five dollars.  After bingo was over we went out to the car and the tire was flat.  About five men volunteered to help my grandmother change the tire.  She was very pretty even as an older woman.  My great grandmother,  Grandma Al,  who I mentioned above was always having women over to play cards.  I think they played canasta.  And she attended Eastern Star meetings.  She had a cross from Eastern Star that if you held it up to the light you could look in the center of it and read the Lord's Prayer.  


March 18 — Shining star: Did you have a female ancestor who had a special talent? Artist, singer, actress, athlete, seamstress, or other? Describe.

The story goes that when my great grandmother  came to stay at my great great grandfather's - the one that died a week after my grandfather was born - that all she had was a sack of clothes and a guitar slung over her shoulder.  I have the guitar now.  I assume she knew how to play it.  So she must have had some musical talent. 


March 19 — Have you discovered a surprising fact about one of your female ancestors? What was it and how did you learn it? How did you feel when you found out?

I found out that my great great grandmother died in Ohio.  I thought she died in Indiana since that is where her grave is.  But she was visiting her daughter in Ohio when she died and her body was returned to Indian for burial.   And since her daughter was buried in Indiana too I didn't realize she ever lived in Ohio. I found the death certificate in Ohio records.  When I discovered this I felt like I had learned not to make assumptions and to be more open to possibilities in order to not miss information.

Thursday, March 16, 2017

Writing Group 3/2017

Last month I posted what I wrote for February's meeting for the writing group I joined this year at the local library.  This month the prompt was "What does spring mean to you?" and what follows is what I wrote to read at the meeting today.   I have enjoyed the four gatherings of this group that I have attended.  They are talented writers and have been kind with their comments about my writing.




“March is the time to make ready for Spring.  The windy month blows way the staleness of Winter and with it we cast away the things we need to remove from our lives.” ~ The Old Crone Corner

In the early spring of 1857 Elizabeth looked around the place she had called home for the last forty years.   A large stone fireplace was on one wall where she had cooked for her family a multitude of meals and two wooden rocking chairs were sitting in front of the hearth.    Inside the fire place a fire crackled, tickling her nostrils with the pungent aroma of burning wood accented by pine sap, while the yellow flames leaped toward the chimney turning to smoke that escaped out into sky above the forest.  A primitive wooden table for meal time with a bench lining each of its two longer sides sat in that same area of the room.  Elizabeth’s mouth watered as she remembered all the hearty stews and coarse breads she served her family at that table.  She could still taste the sweetness of fruit cobbler which was often what she made on Sundays to serve at the end of the meal when the blackberries were in season in the nearby woods.  A bed was under a window that had no glass but instead was covered with a wooden shutter.  She saw the ladder going up to the loft area where all six of her children had slept.   A quilting rack was near the ceiling on one end of the room patiently waiting for her to lower it and attach a quilt top with the other layers to join onto it.  A spinning wheel sat in one corner and a loom was lumbering along the south wall.  This was her home.  She had shared it with her husband George from the time of their marriage in 1815 until this prior October when he had passed away.  Now 69 herself, Elizabeth was tired.  She had spent the winter living with her son Samuel and his family at their nearby homestead and today Samuel had brought her here to gather whatever she wanted to bring back and have with her.   Well, he would have to understand this was not a one trip event.   It would take time to look through items and decide what she would bring with her.  It would take time to remember as she sorted and cleaned.  Spring was a natural time to do this cleaning and choosing.   It was the time to say good bye to the old and usher in the new.   Today was the first day she would begin the process of moving on. 

Samuel was her first born.  She had already buried his brother Peter who had been born a year after Samuel but only lived to reach 31 years.  A year after Peter was born her son George had arrived.   Two years later along came John and then two years after that her first daughter Catherine, but Catherine only lived to age 28.  Annie was born 4 years after Catherine.   Elizabeth realized she was extremely fortunate to have four of her six children still alive and nearby.  She was lost in these memories as she was packing her sewing basket and sewing supplies into a wooden trunk.  Samuel was already loading the spinning wheel and loom onto the wagon.   Elizabeth noted that he was sure in a rush for someone who was 41 years old.   Samuel’s son George, now 18, was along to help move items from the cabin to the buckboard wagon. 

Elizabeth began to pack the few books her and her husband had owned into the trunk, stacking them at the side of the sewing supplies.  She placed a prayer book and a book of poems into the trunk.    She fingered the cover of a very large German Bible that had all the births of her children and grandchildren carefully recorded along with the deaths of Peter, Catherine and George and then placed it into the trunk.  She pressed a smaller German bible to her chest that she had used to teach George to read and that he had taken with him on his 26-week preaching circuit throughout the Alleghany Mountains surrounding their Pennsylvania home.   Rarely was he able to travel on horseback but instead usually walked.  He had to swim streams and travel in all types of weather.  Twice he had walked clear into Ohio.  George had begun his ministry in the 1820’s when their son Samuel was a small boy.   Elizabeth and the children kept the farm going, doing all the outside chores while George went from meeting to meeting.  She had maintained their home in his absence and kept up with her spinning, sewing and quilting while she tended to the children.   After placing the small German Bible into the trunk Elizabeth picked up a bible that was written in English and held it to her cheek.   After George had learned to read the bible in the German language his congregations began asking him for services in “The English” so she had taught him to read in English from this bible.  After that he had carried both bibles with him.   The books were both very worn and the covers had gotten soft and supple.  As she placed that third bible into the trunk she was brought back to 1857 with the voice of her grandson saying “Oma”.  Looking up, she saw young George standing near her with his round hat in his hands.  Samuel and George were done disassembling the quilt rack and its pieces were loaded onto the wagon.  Also on the wagon were stacked the benches and the kitchen table.

“Father and I were talking Oma. We have the wagon full for now.   Would you like young Elizabeth to come back here with you in a couple of days?  The two of you could spend several days here if need be going through things and sorting out what you wanted to keep. But now we should head home as we are finished for today.”

Elizabeth’s heart leapt.  Her grand-daughter and namesake was eleven and spending a few days here at the cabin with her would be a treasure.   How wonderful it would be to have such an important part of her new life with her as she packed away the old one.  Elizabeth smiled and nodded at her grandson.  He smiled and nodded back as he shut the trunk she had filled and began to carry it toward the wagon. 

Elizabeth stood up.  She was a small woman.  Her black skirt and blouse were very plain.  Her long hair was gathered in a bun at the nape of her neck and a plain bonnet was on her head in the manner of the old order people that were her family and friends.   She straightened her shoulders and took a deep breath looking around the cabin.  It was the month of March.  Soon spring would be here.  It was time to blow away the stale air of winter and begin to celebrate the newness of life. She could smell the freshness of the mountain air and hear the breeze as it rustled the trees as she began to walk deliberately toward the waiting wagon and her son and grandson.  


Epilogue: 


The proceeding is a work of fiction that has been woven around a frame of fact.  Elizabeth Bair Rairigh was my 4XGreat Grandmother.   I know the details of her husband’s ministry and the fact that she taught him to read in both German and English from the information I found in a book called Two Centuries of the Church of The Brethren in Western Pennsylvania 1751-1950 by the Historical Committee and published by The Brethren Publishing House.  I know the birth dates and death dates of her and her husband and where they are buried.  I know the same information about her children and grandchildren.  And I know Armstrong County was the county in Pennsylvania where she and George lived.  I know Elizabeth migrated to Darke County Ohio with her son Samuel when he (also a preacher) moved his family there in 1863.   But I have no idea of the details of the contents of her home or what it looked like.  I have no knowledge of when she moved in with Samuel and his family.   I completely made up her thoughts and actions in the above story.  I have found no description of what she looked like.  It is a fact that Samuel was affiliated with the more conservative Old Order Brethren Church and would have dressed in the manner they did.  I do not know what spring meant to Elizabeth.   But to many, including me, spring is associated with spring cleaning.   And since family history is what I am interested in writing about I chose this format to engage the theme of this month’s topic “What does spring mean to me?”. 

Tuesday, March 14, 2017

Hillbilly Elegy by JD Vance




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I listened to Hillbilly Elegy on audio and it was especially enjoyable because it was narrated by it's author.   It is the kind of story that makes one laugh at times and makes one heart sick at other times.  And it brings up a lot of really good questions.  I highly recommend the book.  It is a memoir of the author's life who grew up in Middletown Ohio.  His grandparents had migrated from South Eastern Kentucky after WWII.   The book explains a great deal about some of the experiences that people from the culture the author grew up in experiences.  Even though I recommend the book I do so with a caution.  Do not read this book if you can't think critically about what you read.  The author does a great job of pointing the problems and some of the origins of the problems.  Then during the last 15 minutes of the book he offers what he considers the solutions.  Which are typical white conservative christian male American opinions that do not address a lot of things.  I do not disagree that a larger social structure will go a long way in helping kids and I do not disagree that the answers lie in empowering our children.  But I think one has to be careful,  especially when talking about empowering girls,  if one says getting families to a church environment is going to do that.  Some of the more liberal churches may be an excellent support system for families but they are not the only choice.  For example,  groups like scouts,  participation  in sports,  and many other social structures can be the support system that families need.  I do give the author credit that he cautions against the more conservative churches several times in the book,  accusing them of shutting out the world instead of empowering the kids in their congregations to achieve their potential.  I do agree that the right church can be a support system for families if that is the support system that they choose.  My main objection to the books ending was not only the preachy ending but the over simplification of the solutions.  I think if parents of working class poor families could just straighten up and be good parents they would in a heart beat.  It is a lot more complicated than that.  He did make many excellent points in the book.  For example he explains how growing up in the culture he did "hardwired him for conflict".  I think that is a very true  conclusion.  I don't want to spoil the book for others by sharing all the insight in this book.  DO read the book.  If nothing else it is a great spring board for discussion.  Please click on the author's name and the title of the book above to follow links to more information.  And enjoy the author's TED talk below.